Women... Why Do You Feel The Need To Cheat, When It Causes So Much Pain?

When your gf has sought to be with someone else, 

has abandoned you, look into your soul, to find 

comfort inside of you. There is nothing you have

done, nor anything you could have done to change

the outcome.

Unfaithfulness is a betrayal that causes pain and

sends your emotions into a flood of turmoil. There

are tons of emotions that apply; cause you are hurting

so much inside. It can be depression, low self-esteem,

Indecisiveness, etc.

What angers and hurts is when she thinks she has done

nothing wrong. To you it is something. It is everything.

How dare she.. she has wronged you!. To lessen her guilt,

she wants you to act as though nothing has changed,

or as though it was your fault. But of course we are

not buying into that! Either Pick up your heart and

take this in stride, or kick that woman to the side.

After all it was her, who betrayed and aggrieved you!

How would she feel if the shoe was on the otherside?